tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3587455211360795219.post7181984210891060094..comments2023-09-20T07:06:52.190-07:00Comments on As I live and breathe: Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08119985669466689102noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3587455211360795219.post-83075244651683604852010-12-12T04:31:20.279-08:002010-12-12T04:31:20.279-08:00You look like your Mom and she knows you were ther...You look like your Mom and she knows you were there !!!!!!!!!<br /><br />I lost my mom when I was 21 she was only 47 and Kellie to this day I still miss her . <br /><br />Like you said I try hard to always think of the good things not the sad things <br /><br />I was lucky I was with my mom she passed in the hosp and I slept under her bed I was so glad to have been so close ...so I know how you miss that but SHE KNOWS YOU WERE THERE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!Spunkiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13563143934647351521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3587455211360795219.post-69172690288990053742010-11-24T20:53:08.516-08:002010-11-24T20:53:08.516-08:00My mom died two days after Christmas...gosh, it...My mom died two days after Christmas...gosh, it's been 4 or 5 years, I don't truly remember..I so remembered the first year and the second year, but like Guilia says, the time that haa passed means less than it did those first two years...she knew it was her last Christmas, didn't pass the day after Christmas because that is my daughter's birthday, her namesake..there is a powerful story around her passing that confirms my belief in angels..she died with grace and elegance, as she lived...don't get me wrong, she was far from perfect, but was so strong in so many ways...I used to miss her terribly, but now I know she is always with me...I wear her red earrings or her turquoise bracelets to honor her and talk to her often, especially when I am dealing with a difficult situation...her courage and strength will always guide me...<br />SavannahAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3587455211360795219.post-64199057565452614302010-11-23T20:00:20.384-08:002010-11-23T20:00:20.384-08:00Some short time after my mother had died I went to...Some short time after my mother had died I went to a party and spoke to a stranger about that kind of loss and how long you felt it. I wanted the truth. I needed to know how long I would be in that kind of pain. They said, essentially, you will always miss them. <br /><br />My mother has been gone? uh, I don't recall now, 13 years perhaps? I prefer to recall her birth date rather than her death date. I still have intense moments of missing her. It is what it is. It shows the depth of the love. I accept that now. But it still hurts. But there is greatness in that kind of love. For there are so many who never have that experience. It hurts, but it is also something to cherish and be grateful for.<br /><br />I honor your mother, as I honor mine. For all that kind of love is so inter-connected. And just makes us one in our attempt at reconnecting with...you finish that sentence as you will.Giuliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15087216769026229805noreply@blogger.com